Indian at heart, American in spirit

To My Parents

My Relationship with my Parents

My relationship with my parents is complicated by the fact that they don't communicate what they think about what I want to do with my life. They're too busy trying to live my life for me, solve my problems, protect me. It's born out of something they know better than I do: love. I understand that. But it doesn't make it any easier.

My mentors were always a combination of different people and my imagination. There's an Uncle who was absolutely Regal - to a T my definition of success - but I didn't know him that well. And he lived in a different country. In truth, I just didn't know if my family was out of bounds or not. Where was it safe to talk about - understand - what I had so many questions about.

 

Aditya Dileep